对话困难

Edutopia:出席yzcca88游戏登录网址社会正义的对话

这 video is a conversation between students 和 their teacher discussing the important tenets of social justice. 他们深入了解自己的特权, minoritized身份, 以及他们为社区创造改变的角色. Students were able to reflect on how they can incorporate the conversations into their daily lives. 

问题:

• 为什么创造与年轻人对话的空间很重要?  
• 这样的对话怎么能建立社区和信任呢? 
• 为什么 should conversations about social justice be 和 include individuals with privilege?

bren Brown谈同理心

Acclaimed researcher 和 author Brene Brown concisely 和 warmly distinguishes between empathy 和 sympathy 和 describes how to respond with genuineness in the face of stressful conversations.

问题:

• What are the dangers of "silver lining” hardships that others share with us in conversation?
• Which quality of empathy do you believe is most important to utilize when navigating difficult discussions?

单一故事的危险|奇曼达·恩戈齐·阿迪契

Acclaimed Nigerian author 和 speaker Chimam和a Ngozi Adichie speaks in her 2009 Ted Talk about the negative impacts of stereotyping, 歧视, 她所说的“单一故事”. 在这次演讲中, Adichie speaks to her own experience migrating to the United States for college 和 连接s to her experiences living in Nigeria.

问题:

• Adichie说的单身故事是什么意思?
• 我们如何才能围绕导致单一故事的内隐偏见建立意识?
• How do media 和 other sources of information play a role in depicting a single story?

从紧张的谈话中释放压力

霍莉·威克斯，哈佛商业评论

有压力的谈话从来都不容易, but we can all fare better if we prepare for them by developing greater awareness of our vulnerabilities 和 better techniques for h和ling ourselves. The advice 和 tools described in this article can be helpful in unilaterally reducing the strain in stressful conversations.

问题:

• Reflect on a time when you experienced an emotional or physical response while participating in a stressful conversation. 当这些感觉出现时，你是如何反应的? 
• Think of a stressful conversation you may be avoiding in your life right now – which approaches would you consider using after reading this article?
• 回想一下当一个朋友, 家庭成员, 同事, 或者陌生人对紧张的谈话做出建设性的回应. 他们的方法是什么，你为什么欣赏它?

如何进行困难的对话

丹·马杰，都市生活垃圾，《ca88登录正确网址》

Every element of a difficult conversation has the potential to give us anxiety: contemplating the conversation before it even arrives, 对话本身, the consequences following the conversation are all anxiety producing scenarios. 然而, learning how to prepare for such conversations can decrease our anxiety 和 increase the likelihood of the conversation going productively.

问题:

• 你对哪项准备技能有信心? 你想学习哪项技能? 
• Are some conversations inherently harder to prepare for than others, or does it depend? 为什么?

从安全空间到勇敢空间

布莱恩Arao & 克里斯蒂·克莱门斯，《yzcca88游戏登录网址》

本章摘自 有效促进的艺术, 挑战为社会正义教育创造“安全空间”的概念, 并鼓励辅导员和教育者努力创造勇敢的 空间.” The catalyst for this transition was the dis连接 that students 和 participants felt between what they believed to be “safe” 和 how social justice conversations actually occurred. 另外, the term “勇敢的” touches on the challenges 和 risk that is inherently built into conversations about race, 身份, 权力或特权. The authors provide a case study to exemplify their argument 和 propose suggestions for reframing these conversations to be more productive 和 promote greater authenticity among participants.

问题:

• 本文鼓励促进者和参与者“选择挑战”.” That is, individuals can choose to what extent they participate in the conversation. 记住这一点, consider the following question: what may be limiting you from challenging yourself to share, 探索, 或者在与他人讨论时理解? 
• How does your response to the previous question help you conceptualize the term “勇敢的?"

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